A Sagittarius woman lacks tact and her flat, on-the-face statements may make you feeling like running away from her. Then, suddenly, she will say something so charming that you will feel as if you are on the seventh heaven. There, you go again! You will be trapped in her charm once more. Once you have been enamored by a Sagittarius girl, you will be staying with her for a long time. She is pleasant, friendly, outspoken and very talkative. Her forthrightness comes form the fact that she has no illusions about the world.

She sees it exactly as it is and says what she sees. At times, you may wish that she were not so honest. But then, she would be like any other girl, wouldn't she? In all probability, you will not like it. A Sagittarian female is very optimistic, but she is not irrational. She will judge the entire situation as per the facts, analyze its probable outcome and still believe that things will get better. Usually, she is very calm and composed. However, when you become rude to her or offend her, she may become like the fire-spitting dragon. 

Sagittarius women are quite independent and love their freedom. They are attached to their family, but not too much. If you want to get something done from a Sagittarian female, just ask her; don't order. She will never ever do it. She is your better half and don't you dare forget that. On the other hand, she doesn't want a sissy for a husband or boyfriend. He has to be a real man, who has his ego and won't stand for nonsense. So, you will be expected to balance politeness with firmness. 

I know it's difficult - but then, since when was winning someone easy. With a Sagittarius girl, you will never have to guess. She says what she thinks and how she acts shows what she feels. This bluntness may cost her heavily at times, even to the point of ending the relationship. Still, she would act as if she's not hurt at all and it is just one of the many harmless flirtations she's had. People will even believe all this, while inside she will be weeping and nursing her wounds. All this time, she will be analyzing what went wrong and when. 

The word 'marriage' makes a Sagittarian female a little nervous and you will need to tempt her in order to make her settle down. She is a little hard to catch and tends to be one of the boys all the time. That doesn't mean she looks or acts like a man! Infact, she is as female as any other girl is. The society and its norms do not matter to her. She can never be the hypocrite that some people are and tend to wiggle a few tongues. Her honesty and brusqueness further add to the negative opinions. 

Don't be fooled by them. Look deep inside a Sagittarius female and you will find a woman who is so enthusiastic about life and who trusts easily. Infact, this extreme belief makes her heart vulnerable and defenseless. It gets broken too often, but then, she knows how to move on with life. You will be tempted to care for her. It's natural. There are hardly any people who can resist the bright and charming disposition of a Sagittarius girl. She will not be too good with money and will most probably be on the extravagant side. 

She is very sentimental and emotional, though it seems otherwise. It just that, where her feelings are concerned, she becomes too shy. After marriage, your house will always remain sparkling clean, even if you don't have a maid to do that. She cannot stand sloppiness, it doesn't appeal to her sensibilities. She may not be too good at cooking, but she will also not burn your egg every day. A Sagittarian girl may pass the most sarcastic comments when she is angry, but she will forget the resentment soon enough. Then, she won't understand why are you so upset. 

As a mother, she will be very friendly with the kids. Infact, she will be more of a chum, than a mom. Only, you will have to teach them to take her bluntness with a pinch of salt. Apart from that, she will be wonderful and make them as independent as she is. She will be a lovely hostess to guests and make them feel at home. Just let her be what she is. Don't try to change her and don't curb her individuality. She will brighten your life with her optimism, boost you with loyalty, trust you blindly and shower her affection on you. She will encourage you to see dreams and help you in making them come true!

TRUE OR NOT SAGI FEMALE??! LOL

In dealing with inner emptiness we often hope for “one true love.” but that doesn't always happen....


I just hope whoever be true to me.. dont take me for granted... MOST IMPORTANTLY. dont drop wrong signal.. TYVM!

been a very tight and busy month of july... Gradually, things are starting to change for the better... thats the least i can hope.. been mugging over night .. tired! but there are some positives within it.. :) \

My Dearest Friend,

Once again it has reached the point

That I have to swallow the lump in my throat

Just to find my voice.

My thoughts are so scattered

I don't know where to start

Perhaps it would be best to speak from the heart.

Oh, it's so wonderfully complicated

These things I hold inside,

The longings I torture myself with as the days go by.

I know how I feel,

This much is true

But I can never seem to convey my hearts message to you.

I stutter and I falter

And I make such a terrible mess

The hesitant words that come from my mouth make little sense

As I over-analyze each and every thought in my head

And dread the outcome from the words I've never said.

Scared?

Perhaps I am

It is not everyday that I fall in love with a girl

Who could never be more than just a friend.

The gaze of yours, the smile that you wore on your face got me fallen and mesmerized all over again. But I cant  be the one to hold your hand..

i just finished two romance movie, both acted by actors and actresses from Hong Kong, these two movies really touching and as usual i almost tear! one is called "love lifting' and the other one is " marrying the Mr perfect" both are really nice movie to watch. (gosh! proposal scenes never fail to make me tear! i swear! but it must be touching) haha!!

these two movies made me realised that love shouldn't be taken for granted. and when it comes, don't let it go and cherish it. yea.. sometimes love do bring bitterness and sadness.. but without these two, how can we taste the sweetness, and happiness that come from love..

misery is part of our life, disappointments cant be avoided too. that's part of our growing process to make us a strong person ... all we have to do is to take it into our stride. and hope for the better..  "what don't kill us will only make us stronger .. isn't it? don't be too cox by love, when its time for it to happen.. it will happen.. do believe that cupid do exist everywhere.. the little cutie is just waiting for the perfect timing to shoot the love arrow... just wait patiently.. but too.. don't hold back your feelings..  you might let the chance slip away.

Love is a cycle, when you love too hard, you get hurt too much. when you get hurt, you hate. when you hate , you try to forget. when you try to forget, you start missing. and you start missing , eventually you will fall in love again. thats how it works.. funny isnt it ? we cant run away from love.. its everywhere ...
but it is true that being love is much more fortunate than to love.. most of the time , we will somehow fall for those that might not even notice us .. oh well. seems like we will be stuck in this love cycle till we are settled down our love one?? geez.. sounds bad uh. too bad! we are human with emotions .. ! unless now you stab yourself into the heart now! haha. :P there is always a question too.. let love seek for us? or we seek for love? anyone out there got the answer?? pls comment! haha.

oh .. possessive love are being tiring for both parties... i do understand the anxiety  ppl have for their love one.. but too much of it may turn into a negative thing and it may turn into stress... just a thought . little bit of everything of will just fine.. love is somehow like cooking... too much spices may spoil the whole dish! so do aware of the amount you put in it.. :)

ps. sorry for the long wordy post! hehe.. just have the urge!

maybe i just one of your choices? oh you made your choice long ago!

and maybe i far behind at the end of the queue? a queue that will nv move!

words are sometimes left unspoken
but doesn't mean that the person don't care
words are just too cheap for our generation now.
so actions would rather be preferred.
and that's my style , Jonathan traits.
please do feel and say hear..
use our heart and not our ears.

当真正爱一个人，投入一段感情时，
为了要让对方开心， 你都不会计较什么复出 :)

in the end , would i be the one thats feeling this way.. ?