A Sagittarius woman lacks tact and her flat, on-the-face statements may make you feeling like running away from her. Then, suddenly, she will say something so charming that you will feel as if you are on the seventh heaven. There, you go again! You will be trapped in her charm once more. Once you have been enamored by a Sagittarius girl, you will be staying with her for a long time. She is pleasant, friendly, outspoken and very talkative. Her forthrightness comes form the fact that she has no illusions about the world.

She sees it exactly as it is and says what she sees. At times, you may wish that she were not so honest. But then, she would be like any other girl, wouldn't she? In all probability, you will not like it. A Sagittarian female is very optimistic, but she is not irrational. She will judge the entire situation as per the facts, analyze its probable outcome and still believe that things will get better. Usually, she is very calm and composed. However, when you become rude to her or offend her, she may become like the fire-spitting dragon. 

Sagittarius women are quite independent and love their freedom. They are attached to their family, but not too much. If you want to get something done from a Sagittarian female, just ask her; don't order. She will never ever do it. She is your better half and don't you dare forget that. On the other hand, she doesn't want a sissy for a husband or boyfriend. He has to be a real man, who has his ego and won't stand for nonsense. So, you will be expected to balance politeness with firmness. 

I know it's difficult - but then, since when was winning someone easy. With a Sagittarius girl, you will never have to guess. She says what she thinks and how she acts shows what she feels. This bluntness may cost her heavily at times, even to the point of ending the relationship. Still, she would act as if she's not hurt at all and it is just one of the many harmless flirtations she's had. People will even believe all this, while inside she will be weeping and nursing her wounds. All this time, she will be analyzing what went wrong and when. 

The word 'marriage' makes a Sagittarian female a little nervous and you will need to tempt her in order to make her settle down. She is a little hard to catch and tends to be one of the boys all the time. That doesn't mean she looks or acts like a man! Infact, she is as female as any other girl is. The society and its norms do not matter to her. She can never be the hypocrite that some people are and tend to wiggle a few tongues. Her honesty and brusqueness further add to the negative opinions. 

Don't be fooled by them. Look deep inside a Sagittarius female and you will find a woman who is so enthusiastic about life and who trusts easily. Infact, this extreme belief makes her heart vulnerable and defenseless. It gets broken too often, but then, she knows how to move on with life. You will be tempted to care for her. It's natural. There are hardly any people who can resist the bright and charming disposition of a Sagittarius girl. She will not be too good with money and will most probably be on the extravagant side. 

She is very sentimental and emotional, though it seems otherwise. It just that, where her feelings are concerned, she becomes too shy. After marriage, your house will always remain sparkling clean, even if you don't have a maid to do that. She cannot stand sloppiness, it doesn't appeal to her sensibilities. She may not be too good at cooking, but she will also not burn your egg every day. A Sagittarian girl may pass the most sarcastic comments when she is angry, but she will forget the resentment soon enough. Then, she won't understand why are you so upset. 

As a mother, she will be very friendly with the kids. Infact, she will be more of a chum, than a mom. Only, you will have to teach them to take her bluntness with a pinch of salt. Apart from that, she will be wonderful and make them as independent as she is. She will be a lovely hostess to guests and make them feel at home. Just let her be what she is. Don't try to change her and don't curb her individuality. She will brighten your life with her optimism, boost you with loyalty, trust you blindly and shower her affection on you. She will encourage you to see dreams and help you in making them come true!

TRUE OR NOT SAGI FEMALE??! LOL

In dealing with inner emptiness we often hope for “one true love.” but that doesn't always happen....


I just hope whoever be true to me.. dont take me for granted... MOST IMPORTANTLY. dont drop wrong signal.. TYVM!

been a very tight and busy month of july... Gradually, things are starting to change for the better... thats the least i can hope.. been mugging over night .. tired! but there are some positives within it.. :) \

My Dearest Friend,

Once again it has reached the point

That I have to swallow the lump in my throat

Just to find my voice.

My thoughts are so scattered

I don't know where to start

Perhaps it would be best to speak from the heart.

Oh, it's so wonderfully complicated

These things I hold inside,

The longings I torture myself with as the days go by.

I know how I feel,

This much is true

But I can never seem to convey my hearts message to you.

I stutter and I falter

And I make such a terrible mess

The hesitant words that come from my mouth make little sense

As I over-analyze each and every thought in my head

And dread the outcome from the words I've never said.

Scared?

Perhaps I am

It is not everyday that I fall in love with a girl

Who could never be more than just a friend.

The gaze of yours, the smile that you wore on your face got me fallen and mesmerized all over again. But I cant  be the one to hold your hand..

i just finished two romance movie, both acted by actors and actresses from Hong Kong, these two movies really touching and as usual i almost tear! one is called "love lifting' and the other one is " marrying the Mr perfect" both are really nice movie to watch. (gosh! proposal scenes never fail to make me tear! i swear! but it must be touching) haha!!

these two movies made me realised that love shouldn't be taken for granted. and when it comes, don't let it go and cherish it. yea.. sometimes love do bring bitterness and sadness.. but without these two, how can we taste the sweetness, and happiness that come from love..

misery is part of our life, disappointments cant be avoided too. that's part of our growing process to make us a strong person ... all we have to do is to take it into our stride. and hope for the better..  "what don't kill us will only make us stronger .. isn't it? don't be too cox by love, when its time for it to happen.. it will happen.. do believe that cupid do exist everywhere.. the little cutie is just waiting for the perfect timing to shoot the love arrow... just wait patiently.. but too.. don't hold back your feelings..  you might let the chance slip away.

Love is a cycle, when you love too hard, you get hurt too much. when you get hurt, you hate. when you hate , you try to forget. when you try to forget, you start missing. and you start missing , eventually you will fall in love again. thats how it works.. funny isnt it ? we cant run away from love.. its everywhere ...
but it is true that being love is much more fortunate than to love.. most of the time , we will somehow fall for those that might not even notice us .. oh well. seems like we will be stuck in this love cycle till we are settled down our love one?? geez.. sounds bad uh. too bad! we are human with emotions .. ! unless now you stab yourself into the heart now! haha. :P there is always a question too.. let love seek for us? or we seek for love? anyone out there got the answer?? pls comment! haha.

oh .. possessive love are being tiring for both parties... i do understand the anxiety  ppl have for their love one.. but too much of it may turn into a negative thing and it may turn into stress... just a thought . little bit of everything of will just fine.. love is somehow like cooking... too much spices may spoil the whole dish! so do aware of the amount you put in it.. :)

ps. sorry for the long wordy post! hehe.. just have the urge!

maybe i just one of your choices? oh you made your choice long ago!

and maybe i far behind at the end of the queue? a queue that will nv move!

words are sometimes left unspoken
but doesn't mean that the person don't care
words are just too cheap for our generation now.
so actions would rather be preferred.
and that's my style , Jonathan traits.
please do feel and say hear..
use our heart and not our ears.

当真正爱一个人，投入一段感情时，
为了要让对方开心， 你都不会计较什么复出 :)

in the end , would i be the one thats feeling this way.. ?

like finally!!! omg ! i manage to recover my password! im able to write on my blog again... when was the last post? 5 mths ago? time really flies.. new school semester .. etc... what's new? projects exams blah blah blah.. OH YA.. new ppl! lol...


got dead drunk for my birthday! no joke!! i enjoyed yet im a little disappointed.. not all attended my birthday. aiya.. oh well , i shouldn't ask for much as i seldom celebrate my birthday.. this is one of the few times..

this is a warm up post! I'm gonna write soon!!! catch u guys ltr!!

didnt know what i did or do today that lady luck got on to me! somehow its gonna do with 5! it doesnt start with 5 but it ends perferctly at 5..  but why is it 5 again?? questioning myself infront of the mirror in the toilet..
i just so over the sky now... haha.. oh well.. just wanna blog about it.. CHEERIOS!

(this post i found it in my blog draft. it has been there since 2008 !)

男人。心灵。柔弱或坚强？


上帝创造了人类；男人和女人。他们两人之间一定有不同的地方。恋爱，失恋是人生必经的事情，男人没我们想象中那么坚强。他们坚强的外表下，有着柔弱的心灵。受伤了，也会难受，也会伤心。
感情都会经历甜蜜，平淡，这是个必经的路程。可是你要的只是一直的甜蜜，过日子，怎么经得起，一天到晚地玩浪漫呢？我还是爱你，可是不会说出来，放在心里，真正爱的人，不会把甜言蜜语整天挂着嘴边，而是放在心里…… 　　在分手后，听到这些，你们的心里会难受吗？爱情其实很简单，男人只是有些话，没有说出来，没有表达出来。男人比较腼腆，他们把爱放在心里。有时候不开口说，不开口问，不代表我们默不关心。

PS- this is just another side of me .

I believe it was fate that we met, now its up to me to carve our future........

Sometimes fate just so funny and like to play pranks on people.. Two person , may appear at the same place, study at the same institute but never had the chance to come across each other . till certain years later, they came about to know each , start to talk to each other.... whatever it is , fate may be playing tricks on us.. we must remain faithful and believe.. whatever is predestined , it will come.. just like how you come into my life and please my heart.. My heart has not been please ever since 3 years ago. :) 

Things i wanna let you know.. But would you ever be the one? (any chance)

第一：我很丑，但是我很温柔！
第二：我很穷，所以我不会风流！
第三：我很笨，所以我不会骗你！
第四：我没有特别的兴趣，所以只会做工赚钱给你花！
我是真的很不错，我爱我自己！

 

你穿高跟穿累了,我会背你走;
你鞋带松了,我来绑;
你不想吃饭了,我来喂;
你想结婚,我来娶;
你想睡觉,我来抱;
... 你生气,我来哄;
你想白头到老,我陪你;
你变黄脸婆,我要你;

this can be regard as a form of confession . Confession that might not even be reveal or to be known .. this is kinda weird but i think this is how people fall in love under all circumstances?

Here Im back again, like the previous post. im gonna more or less talk about horoscopes again. My this cute little friend somehow got me smitten into this thing which in the past i dont normally will care much about . After reading through those signs im interested in, i found out, most of the facts are quite true.. And matches between different zodiacs.. Of course in this post, i will post the my zodiac.. and match with the signs that im find it interesting , Here it goes.. :)

 Compatibility for Pisces and Leo: Pisces loves the confidence of the bold Lion, who in turn is intrigued by the expressive, insightful Fish. Initially, Pisces feels protected by Leo, but in the end, the Fish feels judged. Probably because Leo can’t understand the Piscean mindset. Not an ideal match. ( I TELL YOU GUYS THIS IS BULLSHIT!!!)

Facts that support the above mentions are bullshit:


-Famous Leo-Pisces Couple: Lucille Ball and Desi  Arnaz
This is one of the most romantic and workable combinations in the zodiac.  Both Leo and Pisces love to fantasize and put their partners up on pedestals.  Both are able to stay on pedestals once put there, too, oddly enough.  This combination can create and sustain an enduring lifelong romance that never tarnishes.  They may not do so well with the practical aspects of career and marriage, but their connection to one another is likely to last forever.

Compatibility for Pisces and Gemini: Relaxed Pisces likes to sleep in; Gemini wants to get up and going. Dreamy Pisces wants to delve into your dreams; Gemini prefers to surf the web. Still, though you come from different planets, you’re both able to adapt, and may make it work. (THIS IS STILL ALRIGHT)

Facts slightly different from the above:
 Famous Gemini-Pisces Couple: Martha and George Washington
 
These two are friendly and talkative. Each of them has an interesting take on reality, and both love to gossip. Their first date might be spent talking for four hours straight. That’s not so unusual for a new couple, but unlike other pairs, these two focus on others’ foibles and delights rather than the personal details of their own lives.

Afterall i still believe that in every relationships, as long as both put in effort, love ,care and concern . Always supporting each other and not controlling, stand by each in regard of what happen. Having trust and mutual respect , give each other enough freedom and space and yet not forgetting each other .. Whatever zodiac matches, even the worst pair, i personally believe will work out. :)

Libra woman mostly has an egg oval facial shape. She has a nice smooth skin and a good figure. She will spend so much effort to keep her skin clean and pretty. She can be easily allergy to cosmetic and make up, but taken care of her face and avoid wrinkle is her hobby. She is good at it and tends to look younger than her age. She can be very naughty like a little boy, but yet fully 100% women.
She looks nice in either Jean or night gown. She thinks woman is equal to man. Sometimes she can think faster than you, but she will not leave you far behind. She will try not to make you feel like you are competed or defeated in any games she plays with you even she is winning. She is a little flirt even she has no idea what she wants.

She can not decide what to do, and what not to do, so she can not set her schedule very well in all cases. She is gifted with how to dress, and how to match her dress. She likes to dress in black and wear perfume. She likes a mild flowery scent. In any argument, she can really argue. She can argue for hours, and mostly win the argument. If it is not a serious argument, she could argue and once a while give you a smile also.

She will make a good politician, because she can tell which party will win the election. She always has good reasons; even she likes to contradict herself. She can not decide what is right and wrong for her, because everything has a good side and a bad side. Woman in other Zodiac might not care what other people think, but Libra woman care what other people, or what you feel as much as her own feeling.
She can adjust to her environment very well, so at work she will be at the ladder up. She likes team work in doing things. If you ask her for help or advice, she will help you except if she does not like your guts. She can change you and make you think you change by yourself without her influence. Good sides of being with Libra woman are she never interferes with your privacy. She will not make you loose face in front of your friends.
Even she cares about how much money she has left his her bank account; she will never forget to let you know how much she cares for you. She thinks taken care of the house is a woman job and she can do it well. But if you expect a Libra woman to fear you, then you are wrong. She is a strong woman even she looks at you with that sweet innocent pairs of baby’s looks and may loose you (let you win) in a few poker games.
If she is the one you are after, then go step by step. The best way is using her friends introducing you to her. Do not make her feel or treat her like a bubble head. You have to move forward toward her with confident and secure. Show her that you are a kind, polite and a real gentleman. Be a slow hand or else you might get smack!
Best Relationship Matches

Aries Is your ideal mate despite being your zodiacal opposite. It’s a great evening out of the Venus and Mars’ different qualities: aggression and tenderness, leadership and acquiescence, practicality and creativity.

Gemini They are able to appreciate your understanding of their complex character, and you’re artistically harmonious.
Aquarius You both love people and beauty, although they’re a touch more unpredictable.

Worst Relationship Matches

Virgo Too fussy for you.
Scorpio Too dark for your warm, sunny outlook.

Recently I'm overwhelmed with ideas to blog. Below is one if them......

What Is Love? 

“When you look at love, you're looking into the face of appreciation.”

Throughout the history of mankind, we as a world culture have made love out to be mysterious, complex, difficult, and undefinable. It’s the subject of endless poems and literary works. There is an enormous amount of material available out there about love, a lot of it contradictory.
We’ve been given the impression that to define love is near to impossible. Maybe there’s a fear that if we define it, it would somehow be less powerful...less impactful...less exhilarating. Maybe we like the mystery of it. But is it really that complicated? Perhaps the complications surrounding love come from all “stuff” we add on to this powerful emotion. Lets drop all the baggage surrounding relationships and define what it is we are experiencing in the moment of love.

Basic Components of Love

What do you feel when you love someone? If distilled down to it’s core components, what would those be? Yes, love is an emotion, a feeling, a wanting, and a “being”. We know it feels good, but what specific feelings, wantings, and beings are present when we feel love? Here are the common denominators of love...

Love is Accepting.
Acceptance is labeling someone as "okay" and having no particular desire to change them. Who they are is perfectly fine with you. You pose no condition on whether you will love them or not. This is call unconditional love. When your love IS conditional, the moment they step outside your set of conditions, love wanes. Consequently, love is rarely a constant state but fluctuates based on our degree of acceptance.
Love is Appreciating.
Appreciation is one step beyond acceptance. Its when your focus is on what you like about another. We look at them and feel this sweeping appreciation for who they are, their joy, their insights, their humor, their companionship, etc. When someone says they are "in love" with another, they mean their appreciation is so enormous for this person that it consumes their every thought.
( "Oh man, he/she is so smart, attractive, funny, talented, etc." ..and if they are all these wonderful things AND they like me, I must be pretty darm wonderful too!)
Love is Wanting Another to Feel Good.
We want those we love to be happy, safe, healthy, and fulfilled. We want them to feel good in all ways, physically, mentally and emotionally.

How Do We Express Love?

We don’t always express our love. Love is a feeling and the expression of that feeling is separate. It’s an action. There’s a practical reason we don’t always express our love for another. It’s an issue of TIME. We only have 24 hours in a day (if you make it up that way). If the expression of love was a core ingredient to love, we would have to be stingy with who we loved, because there simply wouldn’t be enough time to demonstrate our love for everyone! If you see the distinction between the feeling and the expression, you can then love endless numbers of people.

Attention

Love expressed is when you give your attention, your time, your focus to someone. Webster defines attention as “the giving of one’s mind to something." There are many ways in which we give our attention to another. We use our five senses. Our ears to listen. Being completely present with the one who is speaking. Our eyes, watching another, undivided attention. Tasting/smelling? (I’ll let you figure that one out). Touching, giving a hug, holding a hand, a caress, or sexual expression. How you express your love depends on the type of relationship.

 PS:you are still the one im thinking about.... Mxxxxxxx

I shall talk about LEO WOMAN in this post.. (Not interested in finding out about man Xp)

She will stand out of the crowd on the street. Leo woman is normally tall or rather tall. You will hardly see a short thick woman. When she walks she walks like a queen, confident and does not look around, though as if there is no one around her. She will dress in her own style not according to fashion. She is confident of what she chooses to wear.

Do not buy cheap cloths where they sell in dozen for her as a gift, she will hate it. Also do not buy cloths that do not reflect her confident personality. She likes unique and strange cloths and accessories. Being different is what she loves. If you want to know her, take times and be patient because she is selective about people she mingles with.
She’s open minded, but yet she is not letting people get to close to her easily. She likes sweet words and compliments, but not too much. She smiles with anyone, but inside she thinks she is borne to be a leader. She likes to be in control because it is in her nature instinct. She is a graceful woman, and she has a magnetic charisma, so expect tough competition.

She is a very proud person, so do not do anything to challenge her confident. She can be mad and act like a hurricane, and later can be like an innocent kitten, but do not fall for her O.K. She remembers everything and likes to cherish her sweet memory, so if you find her old photo albums with her ex-boyfriend or love letters that will make you puke, take it easy.
She is keeping her sweet memory does not mean she still in love with the old fool, so you do not have to panic. She will have many guys run after her, so if you have advantage of a good background family, or a famous last name, a successful career then it’s a plus. She hates to be poor and she thinks love will not pay bills. She is a sport type and love sports.

If you want to date her, prepare to spend big bugs, for your first dinner with her can not be a hot dog stand, but better be the best place in town. She is a generous person, so do not be surprise if she gives you a gift more expensive than what you gave her. She likes extravaganza, no cheap gift, no cheap dinner please.
Being poor or broke make her depress. If you do not have lots of money, be creative and make your own gift for her. It’s unique quality and times spending making it for her is a big deal. You can think economical, but do not be cheap.
Best Relationship Matches

Aquarius They are your zodiacal opposite, but they can be your truest companion and there are surprisingly few conflicts that arise from their opposing natures. You prize your humanity, believe in the same ideals, and admire creative pursuits in different and complementary ways.
Aries and Sagittarius Your fire-sign relatives, are also natural companions, but on a more casual level.

Worst Relationship Matches

Gemini They’re mostly mind-oriented, you are all heart.
Capricorn You’ll overpower them, and they’re not likely to forgive your mistakes.
Pisces You’ll hurt them before you even realize it, and they’ll harbor a long resentment.

HELLO!!


4 months overdue? I went missing here for this long.. i really dont have much to blog about.. It has always been unhappy stuff i blogged about. I wanna make a change.. I gonna have a change too.. hopefully it will turn out well.

my life been so dry without love.. but i not till that desperate situation yet. No worries... i will never get into that.. i use my brain to think.. not thy lower part of my body Xp

Recently someone arouse my interest of studying horoscope.. well.. i shall do some research on the horoscope im interested in.. shall blog about it  soon.. Adios!

Loving you is a nice feeling
I love you because you are you
Simple, loving and natural

As what I see day by day
I guess - you're molding me like a clay
You taught me to love you
And be inspired in everything I do

I feel cold every time I see you
But later on it will just calm through
I feel lucky loving you
And glad every time I help you

Loving you is like a butterfly
Free and feeling cloud nine
I fly as I look at you
Sometimes I don't know what to do

I smiled at you
And you smiled back at me
But if somebody comes along
I get mad, nothing more
I can do but understand

Jealousy could do nothing
But hurt my feelings
Now, no matter what
Jealousy would not overlap
For I know, loving you is all I can do.

To your face I'm a friend,
but when I think of you,
I don't know where the Passion begins,
I think of you night and day,
I just don't tell you
what I'm about to say,
you control my every thought,
you may not even know it,
when I'm around you i try hard not to show it,

you're who I want to be with
together till the end,
but as far as you're concerned,
I'm just a close friend,
you may not want to believe this,
or even think it's true,
but what I'm trying to say is,
I want to be with you...